The greatest among you must be a servant. But those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted. (Matthew 23:11, 12 NLT)
The proud will insist on their understanding, ways, views, dogma, to the point of hurting/destroying a relationship.
The humble will bring peace, healing, reconciliation with them wherever they go. The focus is not being "right", but being in union/harmony/love above all else.
May we ask for humility every day we wake up.